

A gentleman's personality means a good dressing sense, value of others' opinion, honesty, modesty, forgiving, and calm nature. No one values your hard work until you achieve great heights.

No matter how hard you work, you need a gentleman's personality for people to respect you. Can you imagine yourself doing this for your children?

Your parents are spending all their income and maybe savings on your education for 18-20 years. It may not be a lot, but it will mean a lot to your parents. It is unnecessary to do a full-time job, but start doing some online business, freelancing, blogs, small part-time jobs, and you can cover your extra expenses apart from your education. It is better to start earning at a younger age. Your parents spent a lot of money on your education, and it is still not complete. Here are some lessons one should know before he steps into his twenties.

Though it is a confident decision, an individual runs through all options and external factors. Here, the person will self-reflect, understands the reason, see if it matches their values and needs. The former is regulation through identification. ‘I want to go to college as everyone’s going’ is different. They do it intentionally but with an external motivating factor.ī) A major difference here. It motivates them to study hard and get grades. It’s like people do things by believing in goodwill.Ī) The student will have a conscious decision to go to college. It’s a more positive side of extrinsic motivation. People know that they have chosen it intentionally to do. People do it under an obligation and not because they want to. It could be due to false ego, self-esteem issues, guilt, worry, peer appreciations, approval, validation, and sorts. But, mostly, your studying will be controlled by the rewards waiting for you. Intentionally you do the studying as you want to. For example, We can see parents telling kids about the rewards they will get after getting specific grades. It’s like an intentional behavior or activity but controlled by external sources or factors.
